22.03.2024
The most successful book in my Open Access Press, THE MEHMI PRESS, is my book about Hindi films. It is read almost every day by someone. So, I have spread my culture. I have achieved something. All by myself. I am a doer. I don’t sit around and wait. I make my own opportunities and carve out a niche for myself. I do what I have been raised and taught to do – fight for Mother India.
A woman came up to me on the street and starting asking me where I got my suit because it was so lovely. Then, she asked me to kiss her. In fact, she ordered me to kiss her. She offered herself. So I kissed her. I am single. Nobody has given me any encouragement or any signs. I am free. As I touched her with my mouth impulsively, I felt the softness of her against me. It has been a little while. It felt so beautiful…
She was beautiful and young. She is from the same background as me, working class. They are friendly and they are not repressed like the women that I know. Maybe I made a mistake. By moving out of my class and thinking that somehow these other women had something that the women from my class didn’t have. Maybe I should change the women that I approach.
A few days ago, I was thinking of kissing a woman. Now I have kissed one for real. Everything changes in just a few days.
In my book of relationships, it says that you should not tell someone that you love that you are around other women or think about them. Of course, you shouldn’t tell them that you are kissing other women. But I have warned Helen. If you don’t give me what I want, I will go with someone else. I am not going to mope around after her because my time is precious. I need my babies and my family. Even if it is a stranger. She doesn’t care. She hasn’t done anything. Who knows who she is doing what with? How long has it been that she knows I love her? She must think that I can’t get another woman. I can. Whenever I want. If I hung around those drunken women. I don’t. They are not my sort.
I have known her for a year and half. I have been talking to her through this diary for six months. If she had any feelings for me, she would have kept me for herself. It is me that can’t move on from her and keeps on hoping that she will change her mind. Even now, I am hoping that she will change her mind. So many women that are strangers to me look at me, think about me, are clearly attracted to me. On the tube back from London, a blonde woman was staring at me in a sultry kind of way and wouldn’t look away even when I looked at her. It is obvious. But this is Helen and how she is. She cannot bring herself to show me any affection.
I am not the one that is doing anything wrong. She has promised me nothing and given me no encouragement. I want to commit to her. I care about her. I want her to be the only one in my life so I can focus on her. She is not letting me.
Do you know, someone – probably Helen – has been thinking to themselves that this is the time that Suneel writes and has been checking my diary over and over again to see today’s entry? If that is Helen, then that is her personality. She will say to me that she is not interested in me. She will not do anything about anything. And yet, she has to read my diary where I am telling her that I love her. She misses me when I don’t write to her. She has gotten used to talking to me in the night. But still, nothing. Figure that one out. What does Helen even tell herself about me? I am obviously not a friend. Because a friend is not romantically interested in his female friend. A friend doesn’t write love letters in his diary to his friend. But Helen wants me to pretend I am her friend even though she knows that I love her. And that is what I have to do. In the writing, I can be myself. In real life, I have to be a friend. So Helen probably lies to herself about me.
The one I kissed was the fourth woman today that approached me on the street to tell me how wonderful my jacket was. Helen might want to show me that she is not attracted to me. Other women are. They want to make conversation with me. They think I look nice and dress nice. But as I often say, I am not desperate. Either I have to know you for a long time to develop feelings for you, or I have to be physically attracted at first sight. And I don’t hang around drunken women like the one I kissed today for serious things like a mother for my children.
We went to the Bank of England Museum and I lifted about a million dollars worth of gold bullion. The other guys were from the place I work at. I talked to quite a few of the staff. They were really friendly women – nowadays, everyone is really friendly to me. I have a trustworthy face for a lot of people and they like my clothes.
I did some recruitment today somewhere, assessing the candidates. It was an interesting experience. But obviously, everything for that has to be confidential.