20.05.2024
Two tribes. Two colours. Black and White. Suspicious minds on both sides.
The white tribe sees the black tribe as cannibals. Hungry to devour them and what they have got: money, power, opportunities. All of it.
The black tribe also sees the white tribe as cannibals. Hungry to devour them and what they have got – their natural resources and the exploitation of their cheap labour. All of it.
To break the suspicion, there is only one thing: Love. Which builds all bridges. Which demolishes all walls. Which creates the only just future.
My Diary 20.05.2024
On the way into London, I read a sad article by a woman in her fifties in The Daily Mail. She said that feminism had failed her because she is single, childless and alone:
It is what I say to people and they think that I am a sexist pig. It is important to recognise that this article is in The Daily Mail and they are a bunch of racists, conservatives and misogynists for the most part – and in a pretty obvious kind of way. However, there is a point to what is said in this article – going after a career and ‘independence’ and only caring about that, not being able to appreciate that men are interested in personal appearance and sex because of thousands of years of evolution, forgetting that your biology only lets you have children in a certain window because of your abhorrence of science – this all adds up into a painful life in the future.
Why am I saying this? Because, in my thirties – like a certain someone – I thought that I could be happy alone. In my late thirties, I realised that I couldn’t. And you can see the problems that I am having now to get this family started up. Maybe whoever needs to read this article will read it. But, then, there is always some excuse that I am so special and this will not happen to me. So who knows. And, also, maybe this certain someone is already with someone. I have a massive suspicion that this is the case and she knows what I am talking about. It is not a secret what I think.
Even if someone is not with me, they should have someone for themselves. Does anyone really think that a friendship can be as deep and rewarding as love? There is no substitute for love.
In the morning I studied at the British Library. There was a massive queue outside to get in because it is exam season (I am also in exam season with my final assessment). Although it was exam period, the reading room for the Humanities was quite empty. I did three hours of study and the plan for the essay is now written. So, now it is just the writing phase left. And more than plenty of time to do it.
So I walked into the Treasures of the British Library exhibition and stared at the handwriting of Leonardo Da Vinci. Amazing to think that he taught himself to draw backwards. I stared at the writing of a genius and thought about how I completely transformed my writing in high school so that it would be the most stylish out of everyone’s. I modelled it on my friend’s, whose handwriting I thought was beautiful.
I went to the Michelangelo exhibit at the British Museum. I discovered that I was not interested in his drawings. Except for the crucifixion scenes that he did, a whole display of them. The crowded and cluttered masses of bodies don’t speak to me. There is just too much going on for me. That is the effect intended as well – to be overwhelming. To be immensely powerful. However, with the crucifixions, there is the concentration on solitary suffering, the construction of a pitiful and reverential gaze. The favourite drawing was of The Man of Sorrows with his mother.
Lunch was a £1.50 chicken and mayo sandwich from Boots. I always go to Boots to save money and because it is not busy. Before, the sandwiches used to be a pound there. And I would buy two. Now, I just ate one. I am preparing to start getting more economical with money. Before, I thought I would meet someone. Now, it looks like I am going to have to buy those surrogate babies. The situation has changed.
I walked into the museum and just joined one of the meetings. It is my holiday, but I care about the place I work in as well. It was a spontaneous decision. It was just for an hour. Everyone knows how hard it is for me not to work. I put everything into it. What else do I have in life apart from my work?
As I walked away from the museum into the second hand bookshop around the corner, I saw the most beautiful woman. She was over six feet in height, had amazingly long legs which were exposed, had the body of an athlete and wonderful blonde hair. And as I looked at her flawless, shining, golden skin in the sunlight, she did not even look as though she was human. She looked like a goddess. This is the gift of beauty. It is divine. And? And what was there to do? I was on the street. You cannot approach a woman on the street. You cannot even look for more than a moment. In this society, all there are between you and beauty and love are barriers.
Browsing in the bookshop. I picked up a book about searching for orchids in Britain – a classic of the genre which I happened to have heard about now I am at the Gardens. It was again £1.50. Then, afterwards, I went window shopping in Selfridge’s and Marks and Spencers. There were so many things that I wanted. But you must not be greedy in life. I restrained myself. I can buy whatever I want so easily. But there is a principle. It is best to be as careful as you can because you don’t know what is going to happen in life. At the end of the year, I might be completely alone in life with no support. And I will have children to raise. Two of them. And it will cost a lot of money to get those children in the first place.